In pursuing success, we often encounter formidable challenges that require resilience, determination, and a unique ability to defy the odds.
Miss Charlene Evans
For 22-year-old Charlene Evans, it was navigating the complexities of impending motherhood while steadfastly pursuing her academic aspirations.
FORMATIVE YEARS AND EDUCATIONAL JOURNEY
Born into a family of 11 siblings, Charlene’s childhood was split between Aliki, Region Three, and River’s View Village, located on the border of Region 10.
She attended Holy Name Primary School and Three Miles Secondary and recently graduated from the Cyril Potter College of Education (CPCE).
BALANCING EDUCATION AND PREGNANCY
Charlene’s life took an unexpected turn when, at 21, she discovered she was pregnant just a week before her wedding. At the time, she was reading for her Associate Degree in Education at CPCE.
Charlene and her husband Ryan.
Balancing pregnancy and studies were a struggle at first but became easier with time. I was not prepared to go and stay away from home at that time, so mentally, it was frustrating to stay in the dorm at CPCE.
Undeterred by this unexpected turn of events, this now 22-year-old said she confronted the challenges head-on, determined to create a beautiful life for herself and her unborn child.
Balancing the coursework with the physical and emotional demands of pregnancy proved to be quite a feat. I faced numerous sleepless nights, overwhelming fatigue, and bouts of morning sickness that threatened to derail my dreams. But through it all, I remained steadfast in my pursuit of an education.
Moreover, the 22-year-old teacher posited that her strength and resilience did not go unnoticed.
She shared with ThingsGuyana that her professors and classmates admired her dedication and offered support whenever they could.
Married on the 26th of December 2021, Charlene found strength in her partner, Ryan Evans, who stood by her as a pillar of support.
My husband became my rock during these times and encouraged me a lot. I did not use my pregnancy as something to excuse any poor performance. So, each day, I showed up to class on time, submitted assignments on time, and studied twice as hard so I could do well in all exams.
Charlene’s daughter, Reqkiah Evans, was born on the 15th of August 2023. The postpartum period brought its own set of challenges, and Charlene credits her family for their support.
Miss Charlene during a class at CPCE.
My family has a business, so despite being very supportive, it was not possible for my baby to stay with them because my mom is not too well. His family took care of us during post-partum, but everyone had to return to work and school in September, so being the supportive husband he is, he agreed he would stay with our daughter. I agreed because he has taken care of me very well anytime I needed him. So, I left for college again two weeks after birth.
Graduating from CPCE on the 29th of September 2023 with an Associate Degree in Primary Education marked a significant triumph for Miss Charlene.
Months passed, and my unwavering dedication paid off. I graduated from college, proudly holding my degree in my hands. It was a moment of triumph, not only for me but also for her family.
Despite the hurdles, she has advice for others facing similar situations.
My advice to anyone who has to deal with pregnancy, planned or unplanned, during studies is it won’t be easy, but it will be worth it. The journey might look like forever, but the right company will get you there – surround yourself with people who motivate you to win. Never allow yourself to grow weary thinking of the process; think about your destination because pregnancy will pass, and despite that, your success story can be just as big as anyone else. When things get tough on you, pray about it, and most importantly, never be ashamed to ask for help.
With her first degree in hand, Charlene, a teacher at the Falmouth Primary School, now aspires to attend the University of Guyana to pursue further education.
Her ambition is driven by the desire to become a great teacher and give her students the best education possible.
I just want to thank my father, Mr. Rendell Wilson who is a farmer who sacrificed himself so I can get this far. He’s my inspiration for greatness. I watch him do everything for us, and I’m truly thankful to my husband for being very supportive, my mother who prayed and encouraged me, my church family, my loving in-laws, and other family members, lecturers, especially Miss Ester Ward, and my friends.
