In the often-demanding realm of healthcare, stories of triumph over personal challenges resonate profoundly, shedding light on the resilience and strength within individuals.
One such narrative unfolds in the journey of Tiffany Cameron, whose trajectory in Mental Health Nursing has defied the constraints imposed by a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).
FORMATIVE YEARS IN NEW AMSTERDAM, BERBICE
Raised in a lower-middle-class family by a single mother in New Amsterdam, Berbice, Cameron navigated financial constraints and societal prejudices.
Despite the challenges, Cameron’s mother became the pillar of strength that inspired her to reach for the stars.
My mother worked hard as a child to ensure that my brother and I never had to worry about our financial situation. She did so many times without basic necessities so that he and I could attend school from kindergarten to the present.
Further, Tiffany recalls facing adversity not only in economic struggles but also in the form of bullying due to her dark skin tone.
I found myself during this period of my life hating my skin colour because of how my fellow peers would spew racial slurs and hateful words at me. I would often cry to my mom about this, and she would always say to me with a smile on her face that I am the apple of her eyes, and I am beautiful in her and God’s sight. This often soothed me and made me feel better.
I remember being so excited to do school projects centered on my African heritage in both primary and secondary school. I would stand tall and tell my mother’s story of being a single mother of two and having to abandon her job as an Immigration Officer when my brother was born because she had no one to care for him and me while she worked and how she persevered despite this.
CHALLENGES – DIAGNOSIS
The challenges did not stop there. In June 2021, Cameron received a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, a turning point that fuelled her determination to pursue a career in mental health.
A registered Nurse by profession, her goal was clear—to help others coping with trauma and mental illness find their way to recovery.
As such, she registered for the Bachelor of Science in Mental Health Nursing offered by the University of Guyana’s Turkeyen Campus.
I have battled terrible doubts, devastating heartbreaks, and moments when I pondered giving up on my aspirations.
Throughout her two-year programme at UG, Cameron faced obstacles that threatened to derail her progress.
Undeterred, she not only navigated these challenges but emerged stronger, earning the respect and admiration of her peers.
In my first year, I had to figure out where I fit in and make a strategy for how to manage my studies while helping out my colleagues who were still getting used to the university system. I was chosen by my peers to serve as the class representative at this time, which was a great honor and privilege that improved my leadership and teaching abilities. I persevered in my second year, seeing the goal in sight, and I was able to finish strongly, discovering my purpose along the way.
As the pandemic cast its shadow over the world in 2019, this Registered Nurse, like many others, faced new and unforeseen challenges.
However, she persevered, triumphed, and emerged with a deeper appreciation for life’s small joys.
Although it may seem hollow for those who have gone before me to advise me to keep going despite Covid-19’s limits, remember that every generation has shared in their own fight. There are numerous types of obstacles. Covid-19 is mine. But I persevered, I triumphed, and I am stronger as a result. So, I implore you now not to look at this year in terms of missed possibilities. I’m starting a new chapter in my life with a better grasp of how to appreciate the smallest joys. Hugs, get-togethers, celebrations, smiles, and normalcy. The manner in which I have responded, reacted, persevered, and triumphed reveals everything about who I am.
To this end, she credited her success to the Almighty and her family, friends, and colleagues who played a role.
I have so many people to thank, but I’ll dedicate this beautiful time to thanking God Almighty, since none of this would have been possible without him, my mom, my sister, my aunt, and my colleagues, because I can confidently state that I would not be the woman I am today without their love and support.
Graduating as the best student in the Bachelor in Mental Health Nursing programme, Tiffany’s favourite quote is by Maya Angelou.
The quote “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel,” encapsulates this Nurse’s approach to life and echoes the impact she hopes to make in the world of mental health nursing.